Respect everyone's free will
Sometimes we really want to help others We really want to let them know what is good We would even point out their 'problems'
But before we try to do anything We need to always remember one crucial point We always need to respect everyone's free will
We might not understand the whole story We cannot feel exactly how they feel now It is kind and helpful to try to help
Many of us do need help from time to time And it is actually sweet and warm for people to receive help We are being kind to offer help
But we need to give our offer wisely We can only suggest, we cannot choose for them In case they didn't pick our suggestions
We need to respect their free will We try not to blame or accuse them for not picking our suggestions Everyone has the free will to choose at any moment
We can only understand with respect We should never interfere when someone makes up their mind Even though we might foresee the outcome might not be good
When we have told them our point of view on that situation It is still up to their own free will to choose what they want They have to bear the consequence themselves
It is their responsibility up to their free will to choose We have no responsibility for how they choose at all It is essential to stay respectful throughout the whole process
Sometimes, rather than giving any suggestions When we just offer our ears to listen It could be helpful enough to someone already
When we stop judging anyone's life We can feel lighter ourselves as well We can always offer our kindness and love to everyone
But in the process, we can accidentally go too far Then it could become an abuse to someone Even our original intention is actually kind and helpful
We need to pay attention to this always Stay respectful along the way is the key We need to make sure our kind intention stay throughout the whole process
We are not here to blame anyone Even if we ever do not being too respectful to others free will We are just here to provide a kind reminder
We are being kind to offer help in the first place If we can pay attention carefully in the process This can really be a real benefit to both of us
We just spread our kindness and love to others While we still respect everyone's free will We don't take other's life as our own responsibility
As we don't know what is best for us and for others We can suggest what we think is right But we never need to force anyone to follow
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