This topic comes to my mind from the thought of me noticing I am not responsible to make others happy, so I start to wonder what is our responsibility on others, and I will express my point of view in this video.
When we are responsible to clean on everything we encounter, of course we are also responsible to clean on others, but many of us might have mix up this responsibility to we are responsible to make sure everyone is happy, while we are not.
Our responsibility on others is our own perception on that person, for example, we perceived someone is not happy, our responsibility is to clean our perception that someone is not happy, not to say our perception are data, that person might really not experiencing the emotion we perceive they had.
But even our perception is ‘right’, that person is really sad at that moment, that is still a replayed memories triggered only, so that is still data we can clean, and we can clean for them, for this part many of us can do it, but there are still another important part that many might missed.
That part is our perception that someone have to be happy, we are not responsible for others emotion, as that is one’s choice and it is up to their free will to choose what they want to experience, even we are for their good, we still need to clean on any of our perception on someone needs to be with specific emotion.
This is something we easily have especially when treating our love ones, we want them to be good, we want them to be happy, when they are not, we feel it is our responsibility causing them to be like that, then we start blaming ourselves, and we are then creating data based on replayed memories.
We have to allow others to be what they are, everyone have the right to feel any of the emotion, and we are responsible to clean every of our perception on someone have to be like that, or that is good for someone to be in a specific emotion, we (ego part of us) is not Divine, we never know what is best for anyone.
That’s why our responsibility on others is mostly to clean our perception on them, both our perception on how they are not, and our perception on how they have to be, when we clean all these data, they are free, and we are free as well.
This also applies to our perception on how others view us as well, like we perceive someone (normally our love ones) feels angry about our action, the perception itself could be wrong (that is that someone do not really think like that) or that emotion are just triggered data waiting us to clean.
We then need to clean on this perception, then we will be free from that judgment and not take it personally, then we don’t need to react on it, as that is only replayed memories, and that also help us to detach from it, and to forgive ourselves if we feel we have done anything wrong, and forgive others if they have done anything wrong.
It is always best to clean and hand back the situation to Divine to operate, as only Divine will know what is best for everyone, we are always responsible to clean the data even when it involves others, but that is our only responsibility only as well, we don’t need to rescue anyone as no one is a victim.
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